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Self Monitoring Your Behaviour

Wednesday, July 29th, 2009

One of the best pieces of advice I ever received in relationship management was from the mother of a boyfriend in high school.  She happened to also be a teacher at the school we attended.  After a brief conflict between my boyfriend and his well intentioned mother which ended in my boyfriend storming off, she looked at me with a sparkle in her eye and said, “He’ll be just fine after lunch.  I learned early to feed men when they start getting crabby.”

I have now brought that brilliant piece of advice into my marriage and into my business life.  However, Matt and I (being the psychological geeks that we are) have noticed that this is not just a male thing, but a human thing and that it encompasses more than just hunger.  We have observed that our decisions are impacted most negatively when we are hungry, angry, hot, lonely, or tired.  These are the times when we find ourselves wanting to toss in the towel or shut down.

Now granted, we have a bit of an advantage in that we are able to hold each other accountable when we notice the shift from being positive and motivated to being negative and sluggish.  (Just as long as it doesn’t happen at the same time.)  Often times we will allow each other to vent for a little while, but if it begins to become a “bitch-fest” we try to gently probe into one of these five areas and put some perspective on the problem.

And then of course we try to remedy the problem as quickly as possible so as to help with productivity.  Maybe it is taking a 10 minute break for a snack or a quick walk around the block.  Maybe a refreshed cup of Jo.  But no matter what we try to keep each other from wallowing in the negative state that not only kills productivity but makes you feel like crap.  (And let’s face it, when running multiple businesses, who has time to wallow?)

For example, today we were driving from one meeting to another.  It was extremely hot and humid and I was mentally exhausted after a great brainstorming session.  I started expressing doubts in myself and the entrepreneurial life.  Matt was great and listened to me for a bit and then gently (that is the key) reminded me that this was not me talking, but rather it was me being hot and tired.

And you know what?  He was right.  After a quick stop for some ice cold lemonade and mental rest I was back to my normal even-keeled self.

Are there times when you notice that you struggle most?  What are your triggers?  What are the triggers of those around you?  How can you help yourself and those around you when these moments hit?

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Life would be much more interesting….with background music!

Wednesday, May 20th, 2009

Next time you’re watching a television drama show or a movie notice the soundtrack. Why am I bringing this up? Because the soundtrack or background music makes a HUGE difference in the mood of the show you are watching.

My guess is that within seconds you can probably start to hum some famous songs. Jaws? Star Wars? Superman? Do you get the idea?

Your business needs to keep this in mind. How so? Everything is engineered and designed by purpose for a movie. The soundtrack is carefully chosen, the costumes and wardrobe, the lighting, etc. But lets just focus on the soundtrack.

What “soundtrack” can you use in your business? Perhaps it is a television with a certain news show on in the lobby, perhaps it is background music, perhaps it is a “soundtrack” for a DVD or CD you utilize. Perhaps it is the phone recording on your voice mail or “phone tree.”

How do you focus on this? You need to determine which music sounds and audio create what type of moods are best for your business situation. What do I mean? Well, if you are a car dealership certainly you need different music is appropriate for you versus a financial planner’s office. And at the car dealership the type of cars you are selling and the type of buyers is also different. Someone buying a Buick (do they still exist?) is different than someone buying a Nissan. Does this make sense?

And then after you determine the market what is the action you are wanting them to do. Are you wanting someone to buy something? Are you wanting them to sell something to you? Are you wanting them to refer business to you?

Can each of these things make a difference? Absolutely.

To prove my point lets do a quick experiment. Now granted, sometimes the case is the opposite but generally the lack of music doesn’t create the drama.

Do you get my point?

So, make sure to utilize every type of psychological viewpoint you can.

And be careful when you swim in the ocean. I know I always am! :)

-Matt

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The Psychology of Good Marketing: Referrals, and Getting People That Want Your Service.

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

When you ask most people what the easiest type of business for them to close is, most people inevitably respond that it is referrals.

Now let’s take a step back and examine why referrals are sometimes the easiest to close.

I think it is because of several main things.

1) Someone recommended you
2) That someone wasn’t you
2) That someone had some level of credibility with another person
4) The person “was looking” or had a need to begin with.

Lets analyze these a bit closer.

1) Someone recommended you – 3rd party endorsement or “social proof”
2) That someone wasn’t you – once again, we tend to doubt people and what they say themselves, but if other people say it (who have nothing to gain) we tend to trust them more.
3) Once again, social proof, and perhaps some authority is involved – the higher the credibility and belief you have of the other person and his or her level of intelligence the more authority they have.
4) NEED – some type of pain was present or identified.

What is the most important thing out of all of these things. Well, I think it is #4. Why? Because no matter how respected so and so is (the person who refers you) if the person being referred isn’t interested or doesn’t perceive a need then the others above don’t really matter.

If someone tells me I need to get my carpets cleaned — that there is the best carpet cleaning company in the state – and that they do a good job — and I really don’t think I need my carpets cleaned – none of that matters. Because the need is not there. Sure, occasionally someone has so much influence that even though someone does not think they need it they will still do as the referrer recommends out of respect, but if #4 is not there, then you have problems.

But, if I think my carpets need cleaned to begin with then #’s 1-3 from above, all can come into play of whom I choose.

So, I think #4 trumps everything. How does this apply to you and your business?

Let me explain.

In proper marketing you are attracting people to your business. Like bees to honey. People know they have a need, then they FIND you. Now don’t lose me here. Most people get this. But then where they screw it up is NOT using #’s 1-2-3 from above to accentuate their marketing. How can this be accomplished?

Case studies. Proof. Testimonials. These can be used to build credibility.

In tomorrow’s post I’ll go more into detail with some examples and the also talk more about #4. I’ll explain why most “marketing” is poor, what it does and doesn’t do, and how you can market properly to attract people to your business.

But ask yourself this. Isn’t it easier to have people coming to you who are presorted and ready to hear what you have to say? It is certainly a lot easier than cold-calling, or even networking.

In the meantime, feel free to subscribe to RSS, send some people this way, or email me some honey (boy I wish we had that attachment system in email :) ) ….oh…and I’ll have the main site setup soon.

-Matt

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HALT! Marketing Psychology and Hungry, Angry, Lonely Tired…and what it means to you…

Tuesday, April 28th, 2009

Today I’d like to share with you something very important about your prospects and potential buyers. This also applies to your life, too, and it effects the mood of everyone you come into contact with.

What is it? HALT. It is an acronym for hungry, angry, lonely, and tired. Now, what does this have to do with your marketing in your business? Well, people are normally put in a poor mood or a less receptive mood – or sometimes an increased mood to your marketing messages — depending on what you are selling. I would also add, ‘hot’ to the acronym.

You see, when someone is in a state of being hungry, angry, lonely, tired (or hot) then they are emotionally more apt to do certain behavior. This is why, from my understanding, AA (alcoholic’s anonymous) tells people to get assistance when they get into one of these moods–because in that case they are more likely to drink because of the negative state of mind and emotions he or she is in. Does this make sense? If you are lonely you are more likely, in general, to turn to alcohol — which is certainly bad for alcoholics.

Now let me ask you this. Are you taking this into account in your business? Are your customers or prospects generally preconditioned to be in one of these frames of mind before you are marketing or selling to them? And, if so, how can you overcome these negative conditions up front. How you pre-position yourself, your company, or your messages is certainly important.

I’d like you to do something very important, if you can. Do some self-monitoring on your mood. I find when I myself am hungry, angry, lonely, or tired my mood shifts and I tend to look at things differently. I believe almost every person is like this. It is “wired” into us. Our chemicals in our brains and bodies shift, and we become more resistant or open to certain ideas and things.

Want an interesting fact? The murder rate goes up when more ice cream is sold. Yup, ice cream equals more murders. Actually, it doesn’t. There is no cause and effect there. What actually happens is that in the summer it is hotter than in the winter, so people have shorter tempers and are more likely to explode in anger. That is one factor, and I imagine also that people are put into situations to where there is more violence. So ice cream sold doesn’t affect more murders, it is just more ice cream is sold in summer when it is hot, instead of when it is cold.

So what can you take from this? Pay attention to what is influencing your customer’s or prospects. Colors, shapes, temperatures, music, sound effects etc. There is a reason why movies spend a lot of money on the soundtrack to accompany the movie. It’s because without that soundtrack the movie, generally, would be a whole lot less stimulating.

Just one little nuance sometimes can throw off your customer’s minds from buying your product or service. And, here’s the thing. And lots of times great businesses are built upon shifting the customers emotions to a desired state.

Disney provides imagination, joy, and excitement.
FedEx provides relief from anxiety
McDonald’s (yes, McDonald’s) provides instant gratification and consitency
Staples has tried to produce, “That was easy.”

So stop, analyze your current customers, and figure out the moods people are put in before they come to your business. If you are a mechanic it will be sometimes fear of being ripped off (especially for women.) If you are an attorney it might be intimidation. The same goes for accountants, at times.

And remember, monitor yourself when you are hot, hungry, angry, lonely, or tired. See how this effects you. Because if it effecting you — it is probably effecting your customers too.

-Matt

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Anchors away! Do you know how to “anchor” your marketing to your customers?

Thursday, April 23rd, 2009

Do you know what an anchor is? Of course you do. It holds a boat somewhere in the water and keeps it from moving around. And if you fall asleep and the anchor doesn’t do its job you could easily be swept into a storm and your boat can sink.

But do you know what an “emotional anchor” is? This is a term used in NLP (and NLP Neuro-Linguistic Programming). Now to have full disclosure here there are debates on to how well NLP works in terms of therapy. But the idea of an “anchor” is and has been known and utilized for a long time.

Anchors really are signals or triggers used in “conditioning experiments.” For example when Pavlov rang the bell for dogs in his famous experiment he linked the bell to the idea of eating time and the dogs would drool upon hearing the sound of the bells. There would not need to be any more food, just the ringing of the bells.

Anchors can be used this way in marketing. Not to get too “political” but politicians also use these extremely well when talking about various scenarios. But how does this relate to marketing?

It relates a lot. When making a presentation certain key words will drum up certain emotions for different people. Just like when the National Anthem is sung at sporting events it brings tears to certain people’s eyes.

Now the key here to realize is that the situation is almost automatic — if not automatic. Nobody hears the National Anthem and then thinks, “hmm, I think I will cry.” No, it is stimulus > response. It is automatic without conscious thought (almost 100% of the time)

What are some examples, you say?

Well, the word “system” in the business word can be a very positive anchor for the right people. Because the word “system” generally means something reliable or automatic.

Certain pictures are symbols (like a country’s flag) can also be anchors. Clothing can be an anchor and even smells can be anchor. Which brings up a great point?

Are you using aroma’s in your business? The sense of smell is the strongest link to memory. And hardly any businesses out there that are NOT a restaurant is using aroma to attract customers.

Sure, you’ll say instantly, “But Matt, this wont’ work for me…my customers are different.” To which my response is, “Maybe not, but the thing you need to be trying to do is figure out how to make it work.” Because if you can innovate that much, you’re competition will be even further behind.

Because anybody can figure out reasons why it won’t. And those are the people who have to worry about their boat sinking (bet yah forget about that analogy from the beginning, didn’t yah? :) )

-Matt

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How I was put in a good mood…a true story…and how it applies to you

Tuesday, April 21st, 2009

Yesterday my wife and I decided to get some pizza. It had been a long day full of work and we didn’t feel like cooking. Okay, so SHE didn’t feel like cooking. Anyway, we drove a few minutes into town to pickup a pizza.

Now most of the time I would call ahead to pickup a pizza because I don’t want to waste time just sitting there, or at the least I would bring stuff to work on or read. But, we tried calling ahead and there was no answer. Very frustrating to try to give a business money and them not wanting to take it.

Normally I would have skipped getting the food at this place, but the food was inexpensive and we both wanted pizza, so off we went to pick it up.

When we got there my wife went in to place our order. I received a phone call while pulling into the parking lot so I was running a bit behind. When I got into the store the crew that was making the pizza was goofing off- but not in an unprofessional way. They had created some kind of song, and cheers for when new customers came in, and when they would make a pizza.

It was funny, and it was interesting. And it brought a smile to my face. The total time it actually took to get our food was under 5 minutes, so it was also fast.

But as we walked out I realized that both my wife, and I, had forgotten to tell them that their phone wasn’t working, or that nobody was answering it. Their humor had gotten our attention and quite literally, put us in a better mood.

Very interesting. In the book “Emotional Intelligence” David Goleman describes a similar experience when he hopped on a city bus, with the bus driver giving a tour and being extremely friendly to people.

What does this have to do with marketing and your business? Everything, perhaps.

It does no good to do proper marketing, proper advertising, and spend the time, energy, and money to get a customer INTO your business if you do not do a good job of taking care of them.

A sales experience audit can be money well spent that investigates how well your business is handling the leads and prospects it gets.

You must realize that the slightest thing can turn off a customer, or attract a customer to you.

In this case, they did a great job. The chiropractor experience that I posted about a few days ago, did not.

I think I’m off to get some pizza :)

-Matt

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Do You Know the Power of Words?

Monday, March 30th, 2009

Words are very powerful. Words can start or end wars, begin or end marriages, and have been known to heavily influence marketing.

Here are some examples:

Death tax vs. Estate tax

Energy Exploration vs. Drilling for Oil

Stimulus Bill vs. Spending Bill

And it can go on and on. One set of words can instantly
conjure up emotions, beliefs, ideas, and feelings.

Choose your words carefully. What emotions do you want
your prospects to be feeling –

what thoughts do you want your prospects to be thinking when you are talking to them, or when they are watching, listening, viewing, or reading your marketing piece.

It is best to start with the end goal in mind and reverse
engineer this backwards.

Ask yourself how you felt above when you read the words to yourself.

Politicians know this trick very well which is why they strive to utilize it all the time. The labels we use are VERY powerful.

If you have any doubt in this, be careful or you could end up ending a marriage — or starting one, too. :)

-Matt

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The Vault of the Mind and Psychological Marketing

Monday, March 23rd, 2009

Often times in sales presentations you have people
who cannot understand why they have been unable
to make a sale.

Think of the brain like this. It is a bank vault. And
to correctly get inside the brain and sell your product
or service you need all the keys to the combination.

Just being one digit off will prevent you from access.

Now you must realize that the people you are selling
to probably cannot understand why they sometimes buy
and sometimes they do not buy. Sure, you must
look at factors such as qualification, budget, etc., but
above and beyond that are you getting the digits right?

Are you conquering the emotions of risk, fear, and doubt?

Are you overcoming their objections up front?

-Matt

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Do people buy logically?

Wednesday, March 18th, 2009

The answer is…..drum roll……no.

People buy on emotion and justify with “logic.”

Which brings up an important question.

What is the “most logical” decision?

In psychological marketing the goal is to answer the question in a logical way so that your product is the common sense solution for your buyer.

You must understand what is going on in the prospect’s mind, their perceptions, the conversation going on in their mind.

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